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Monday, December 29, 2008

Gay cruising spots in chennai

Its really frustrating when i see so many new year events and parties in g4m happening around the nation for gays and not even one in chennai. It seems like the whole world is celebrating unlike the chennai gays sitting at home and watching Events of 2008 in television. This actually arises few questions like Are chennai guys hate parties ? Are they not socialites ? Are they still in the closet ? Are they still too much dependent on their parents and their restrictions ? Are the too much of ban in Chennai restricted them ? Are they really a frog in the well like the northindians says ? What is their real problem ? ...one thing i can say most of the chennai guys doesnt know how much excitement a new year party brings to you. its like watching a world cup cricket final live from the stadium

Well i have no answers for these questions, since iam not a born chennaite. But it irritates me when i see even smaller cities than chennai like trichy, coimbatore, pune, nagpur or jaipur celebrating gay parties when chennai has none. Well i tried to organize one but given up finally because of the lack of volunteers i have posted several in the g4m forum and got zero response. People here just treats everything as risk and they just want to have fun on someone's cost.

Last week Adarsh from g4m invited me to Platinum (for those innocent chennai guys Platinum is a disco cum bar at Aruna inn). He told me that Platinum can be a very good gay spot on sundays since it is less crowded and stags (single) are allowed. Though the turn out seems to be less in number last week but it was fun (especially the hot DJs). And people like Teja and Senthil(he is a stylish dancer) are around fun is always guaranteed. i hope more gays will turn in the coming days.

Adarsh also asked me to come to Elliots beach (besant nagar) to meet some of his friends. There were a mixed group of guys (sorry men) i met there. Couple of men seems to be more elder than me but still they were very interesting and the chat i had with them was quite exciting to me.

I must mention about some of my recent visits at Marina (My friend Rahul dragged me in). The Place was filled with LGBT community people but i cannot call it as gay spot since i find plenty of transgenders and cross-dressers there. The Place also looks like a spot where plenty of criminal activities (like drug dealings, prostitutions, thefts etc) takes place. Infact one callboy approached me in my earlier visit and asked me how much i can pay him for one nite. I think guys like us who are educated and decent should quit going to this spot and try to organise or locate a new gay spot in chennai, and leave the Marina Swimming Pool spot to the poor transgender community.

World is changing, Chennai and our mindset are bound to change and its enough waiting for someone to take the initiatives...In 60's and 70's drag queens and several gay men took several initiatives and fought hard to achieve what they have got in United States and Canada. We may not have to take those activities now which are automatically happening in India, but atleast we should find a decent gay spot in chennai. Some of my friends who are ready to take initiatives which will unite our community but they need support, not your demotivating opinions or cautioning ideas ( i know there were some bad incidents in the past). But now the government is more open to gay issues and the media support is tremendous...all we need to do is willingness and volunteers.

i guess in our new year resolution quitting Marina beach visits and finding a quality place for a gay meet is essential. We have hidden ourself enough in the closet for so long, i guess the time has come now that we decide to do things which makes us happy. There is nothing wrong in meeting like minded people and sharing our feelings and thoughts. So lets stop running behind our straight friends, they can never understand you truly. Lets find a quality Gay zone in Chennai

Note: "Spending money for your entertainment may look like expensive and waste to you guys, but spending money for your lifestyle which decides your life is priceless"

47 comments:

  1. hi viki,
    could you make your site more easily accessable.it is incredible
    siva

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    1. Chennai marina ,swimming pool is hot spot to meet guys now a days ,very easy and safe in day time only 10am to 5.30 pm

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  2. gay life is happy life

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  3. hi viki,
    BODY MASSAGE is one new costly "sport" i discovered. In chennai there are a number of ayurvedic massage centeres(i also find ads from individuals in news papers which i dont want to venture). I prefer ones like AUYSH which is well maintained. I went to one benind Chola hotel(end of kaustri rangan road and take a right turnand it is on the left side). i was asked to fill form.i gave a different name etc. i said i wanted a full body massage. i was asked to wait- the guys who do massage were all young from kerala.My heart was beating fast praying to get a "good"guy. A young guy (24 yrs) came and smiled and asked me to come to the massage room.I folowed him . He bolted the door.Light misic as on. He asked me to undress and came with a small loin cloth. I was half hardon. i was in my shorts. he tied the cloth and asked me to take off my shorts. I felt almost nude(the white cloth was almost transparant.). He asked me to sit on a stool and applied oil on my head and massaged. I held his hips with both my hands to stay in position.He did not object(some guys do say to take of the hand). He was in trousers and banian. i praised hos body and lovely face(i find every one falls for praise). He was happy.
    He then asked me to lie down on the coach. I lay down .He applied oil all over my body. I touched his thigs and praising his thigh musles and as if by accident pretended to touch his shaft. He just smiled. I was encouraged--i touched. He became hard and could not conceal the hardon-but continued to masage. I became erect and my prick came out of the small cloth. He smiled. I sat up and undid his zib. I asked him to remove his clothes hich he did. We embraced and had a very good time and then we both spilled the beans ans had a clea up and he completed the massage which wa also too good. He aske me to keep his identity a secret so i cant disclose his name. I was relaxed in mind and body. I tipped him double. He said he is looking forward to my next visit. Me too.

    siva

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    1. Dude where is this place ?? tel me :P

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    2. Siva, i am also planning to go to ayush alwarpet... any idea is thay young guy still there?

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  4. common yaay there lot good things to do then organising a gay partyy.....
    empowering gay community and things like that..
    even am a gay.. but all that comes secondary....
    its sounds bit obscured wen we say that we r gay...
    an ubnormal...
    we should enjoy.... we should not bang the drums to let the people know wat we r....
    i know many will not agree with ma words....
    every one has got there own views.. thats all i want to say...
    " try to do something godd through which the world will remember u"

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  5. i would like to be a member of this gang staying in chennai names sandy 28 male,157cms,fair,athelitic.

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  6. i would like to have fun with really guys serious in their relationship

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  7. Hi Siva,
    Nice to know about your massage episode in Ayush. I do need a massage like that and I fantasize like that. Did you visit to that place again? Was the guy available? Let me know. I dont want his identity to be revealed though. Atleast if he is still there, I can also make a visit and make a move. Just let me know pls.
    Thanks.
    Jayesh

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  8. hey guys will visit chennai soon for a break kooking forward to meet up with some local boys anyone out there get back to me pls.

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  9. Every one has protected their privacy, to protect their profile their image their status, those who have posted command here... And they tell us to b open and live free and proud to b gay... Is their any answer ?

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  10. Hi, can you please post an update for this article? Is there any new gay place around? I tried to search on the net, but I wasn't lucky enough... No gay places in Chennai? is that true?

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  11. Hey, the young male prostitutes are just fine. That's a gay thing too. Don't get all pretentious about the sex.

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  12. Hi,

    I m visiting Chennai and staying at Besant Nagar....can anyone suggest where I can get a relaxing, sensual body massage around Besant Nagar? I do nt have place...

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  13. HI guys m visiting bangalore this tuesday thats 25/05/2010, any guys wanna catchup msg me at abhijit24in@yahoo.com.....m 29m,fai,cleanshaven n gdlking

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  14. hey i visited the Ayush which SIVA was talking about...it was really awesome....had a wonderful time....i guess it was the same guy...

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  15. hey
    i went to krishnaveni cinema theater in t-nagar (6.30 pm)there i found 10~15 gays having sex simultaneously with 3~4 person at a time
    i think this is the best place for gay sex in chennai

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  16. Hey... is it stil happening in krishnaveni??

    since a long time.. i din go ter..

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  17. i did went to that ayush massage centre which is in alwarpet...
    but nothing happened...the masseur was hot though...

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  18. Hi siva, It has been a long time since your first message was posted. I am seeing your message only now. is that same thing happening in the same ayush parlour now? any risks you faced, like hidden cam or video, blackmails etc? please help me. vetri.

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  19. I went o Ayush and had a massage with Shiju and it was total waste, he did not do anything what I wanted but just a OK massage , he is thin mallu guy so please check b4
    thanks

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  20. Natraja theatre in choolai is a safe haunt for gays! All you need to do is buy a balcony ticket and choose seat in any of the last two rows.......you will enjoy the next 3 hrs!

    Similarly i like Mahalakshmi theatre near purasaiwalkam also....same balcony and last rows....awesome!

    Krishnaveni is also good but at times the management sends gundas to clear gays and they end up thrashing people.

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    1. hey.. do good manly guys come to mahalakshmi and natraja??? It's a news to me and none have mentioned these theatres till now.....

      Does it happen in full swing there????? tell me plz..

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  21. any gay massage parlours are there in chennai

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  22. hey this is sambath i used to meet gays in marina beach.... but sometimes i faced many problem
    my suggestion to all is first u make friendship with gays not for sex u both go to shopping cinema and etc., then nobody will doubt u... after that u can ur likes and dislikes in ur home too.......

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  23. THE BEST PLACE FOR ALL OF US TO MEET AND FIND PEOPLE OF OUR LIKES NEAR CHROMEPET AND TAMBARAM..IS THE LAKSHMI THEATRE NEAR PALLAVARAM BRIDGE...

    TAKE 30 RS TICKET AND GO INSIDE AND OCCUPY THE TOP RIGHT ROW....THERE WE FIND EACH OTHER...

    THE MOMENT THE LIGHTS ARE OFF , U WILL SEE ATLEAST ONE HAND TRYING TO TOUCH YOUR DICK..............

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  24. wat is de route 2 dat theatre ??? pallavaram bridge ??? how 2 reach !!! say m starting from "the park hotel" near anna flyover !!! m driving !!! by car

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  25. Hi,

    I got real massage (after a long time) from AYUSH massage at Khader Navaz Khan Road, Nungambakkam. All three guys there are hot and I have "tried' with each one and really enjoyed. Only one guy demanded heavy tips if he had to do.
    SIVA

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    1. what s d cost of full body massage..
      arun

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  26. Hi Siva

    I have been to Ayush but nothing happened !! which r the guys u referring

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  27. How much they charge in Ayush and how much you tipped. Is Alwarpet good or Nungambakkam good? Is still that guy is there in Ayush Alwarpet.

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  28. whats ur age siva

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  29. Siva ,

    Can enlighten us more ?

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  30. Siva,

    May I know what is the normal tip ?
    Any recommendation of names ?

    Tks.

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  31. Anyone can update on latest happening in Cinemas ?
    Wh one is the hottest action now?

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  32. Hi....if u wanna njoy then guys pls go to natraja, mahalakshmi and lakshmi theatres...i enjoyed a lot manly straight guys are also approaching but u guys have to be a bit girlish then sure 100% hunting....t.ngr krishnaveni theatre and the bus depot toilets are also a good crusing spots....

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  33. If u wanna catch hot straight guys for sex then please go to mylapore picnic plaza bar on only weekendz.....u guys can rock....

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  34. How in picnic plaza bar?? pls explain sahish :)

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  35. Unfortunately guys .....nataraja, murugan and lakshmi theatres are closed for ever!!!
    i am already missing the fun!!!

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  36. nice comments... keep it up

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  37. buddies,,,, This is Aditya frm north,, donno most of the places in chennai,, do v have any get together gay party area wise ,,, kinda tambaram or t nagar........ so hanky pankies,, just decent talks............

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  38. i ve been to Ayush but a different branch in the city. The great thing about Ayush is the loin cloth they provide to wear. It is as good as wearing nothing if you are a full grown adult and have a big dick. The next best thing about Ayush is that they start the massage from the head (not penis head :-)) your real head by applying oil on your head and it is very soothing. Then i usually get aroused when they start massaging my back, they untie the back portion of the loin cloth when they massage your back portion of the thighs and that is very arousing and i am usually erect and I ignore it completely as it is normally for anyone to get erect at such a situation. The masseur while massaging the back of my thighs manages to touch my dick as if it is accidental and that is arising. And then when he asks us to turn around, its even more arousing because i have a full blown erection with my penis head uncovered and the only thing i pray is that my penis should not slip and start being visible from the sides of the loin cloth. As i don't stop with getting erect, but i start oozing pre-cum also which is very embarrassing. Anything nothing creepy really happens at the parlour i go and sometimes i give myself a happy ending and other times, i just let it go with a great rejuvenating feeling. But when i got to the bathroom to get a bath done, the masseur is not longer worried about seeing me erect towards the end of the massage, he asks me to undress and get him the loin cloth as if making sure i dont flush it inside the toilet. he gets a full glance of my erect penis with precum :)

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  39. Hi, i have never been to an massage parlour, would like to go to one, please suggest a good one, where we can meet some good handsome hunks

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  40. Please let me know were r Gay accomdation in Chennai gagartcs@yahoo.com

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  41. Guys
    These days Krishnaveni is hot but too many 3rd rated men......

    i love comments abt ayush ....... just give a clue abt tat guys name....... so that everyone is benefited

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